Saturday, October 6, 2012

Where in the world in Guangxi?



The small light blue region on the Southern border of China is the province of Guangxi.


"Guangxi, is a province of southern China along its border with Vietnam. In 1958, it became the Guangxi Zhuang Autonomous Region (GZAR) of the People's Republic of China, a region with special privileges created specifically for the Zhuang people.


Guangxi has a subtropical climate. Summers are generally long and hot (like Florida!). Average annual temperature is 17 to 23°C, while average annual precipitation is 1250 to 1750 mm.
Major cities include: Nanning, Liuzhou, Guilin, Beihai."


Here are some pictures of the current city that Juliet is living:








Meet Juliet

When we inquired about Juliet we received these referral photos (as well as the one above):




"On November 25, 2010 E’shan police station of L**zhou City received a call which said that a person reported an abandoned baby was found at the downstairs of the sixth Building.  After a lot of search the birth parents of this baby was not available. The policemen sent the baby to Children’s Welfare Institute to be raised with some certificates.

Baby girl wore an orange suit, with a can of milk powder which is yet eaten up, a bag of clothes and a good luck amulet on her.

According to the development of the child, her DOB was estimated as Sep XX 2010 and she was named as Liu Yilan. “Liu” is the surname of all the children in this institute. “Yi” is the common name of the girl who entered to this institute in 2010.  Lan is the name this institute gave to her with no special meaning."



The mass abandonment of baby girls in Ch*na is a very complex problem.   (The Lost Girls of China is a very moving book on this subject.) There are very deep seated cultural preference toward male babies as well as the "One Child Policy" in Ch*na that contributes to loss of nearly 5 million baby girls.  I can't begin to understand why Juliet's mother after giving birth to a beautiful baby girl and nursing her for nearly 2 months would abandon her.  I do believe that she loved her.  She left her bundled in clothes, with a can of milk to be fed and a good luck necklace commonly worn by babies in Ch*na.  Abortion is very common in Ch*na as well as female infanticide.  The fact that her mother chose to give her life and leave her in a place where she thought she would be found quickly makes me not feel angry towards her but grateful that she chose life for Juliet.  I believe God protected her knowing that someday He would bring her home to us.



Our Journey to Juliet

We are excited to include our friends and family on our Journey to Juliet.  This exciting journey has its up and downs as we patiently or inpatiently wait for our baby girl.

We first saw this precious face on July 1, 2012.

James and I had talked about adoption, specifically from China, very early in our marriage.  It was something that we knew we would do at some point in our lives.  Our lives were very busy after we got married and included medical school, graduation, residency, and a BIG move back home to Florida.  In that time we had our biological son, Jackson, in January 2010.  He has been the absolute joy of our lives.  We wished for Jackson to have a sibling but didn't feel the draw to have another biological child of our own.  In China there is a magic age in which both parents much reach in order to adopt.  I reached that magic age earlier this year.  We started just "looking" without any specific intent to adopt right away.  Life was busy with a new job and new house.

Life was not to busy for that beautiful face.

All it took was one look and our hearts were hooked.

Our Journey has begun.